How to Talk to Anyone!

About the Book

The world-famous book ''How to Talk to Anyone'' was written by great author ''Leil Lowndes''.This book tells us about some best tricks of communication. The total number of pages in this book are 150.

Review of The Book

Hello guys, I hope you're doing absolutely fine, Today I'm gonna tell you the best tricks of talking to someone. These tricks will help you to achieve what you want and complete your life dreams.

I still remember, There was one guy in my class when I was in 12th. He wasn't so Smart, Intelligent & also not much good at studies, But after all this everyone liked him because he knew how to talk to Anyone, He could talk to anyone anytime without hesitation.

Communication plays a big roll in our day to day life, It's a great skill which we all should know about.
But sadly our education system doesn't help much to work on that, Even we're forgetting to focus on communication due to Internet & Social media.

But The reality is that this skill will help us a lot to get success in our life.

Communication has big power.

Ex. With the help of communication, you can crack big deals, Inspire people, Make your relationship strong & Win hearts, etc.

Here are some tricks to improve your communication.

The Flooding Smile

There was a man who did not use to get much happiness from his life. His relationship was not much great, Nobody used to talk to him, He was sick of his life.

So make the situation better, He took a membership of  Dele Carnegie club.
To make things better, He got one simple task. The task was, ''Give a smile to at least one person every hour''.

And he started applying that task.

The next day, he got up, and before having food he gave a good smile to his wife and said good morning, Her wife got shocked and asked him, ''what happened to you today?''.

and he said, ''Don't worry, It will happen daily now''.

And he gave a smile to many people when he was going office.

And after this, He realized when He used to give smiles to people, The people also used to give a smile to him. Which made him feel better.

Because of this, people also started talking to him.

After that, he shared his experiences with other club members and said this simple thing gave him a lot of happiness which He did not expect.

So, While talking to people, make a good simile on your face, this will increase your Attractiveness & Confidence.

The Sticky Eyes

The author says The most common mistake people do while communicating, that is They don't make eye contact while talking, They see here and there and this thing gives a signal to others that you are not interested to talk to him or her, and obviously no one like this.

So, If you wanna make a good conversation with someone, the first point is to make eye contact. 

The Best is to make eye contact, but use this If another person is interested to talk to you otherwise, it can make others feel different.

Match The Mood

It is a very common mistake while communication If you are sad and someone comes to you and talks excitedly about something.

You also like to be excited but at that time, you won't like that person who is talking excitedly with you.

It all happens, because of Mood Mismatch and That's why when you talk someone so try to understand the Mood of that person first and Start talking with according to their mood.

Never The Naked Job, City & Introduction

When someone meets someone so they talk like that.

A- Hello!

B-Hello!

A- What's your name?

B- Peter & Yours?

A- Robin

B- Oh Good!

AWKWARD SILENCE!

A- I'm a software developer and you?

B- Oh Good!, I'm an engineer.

A- Good!, Where do you stay?

B- Agra & You?

A- Jabalpur!

B- Nice!

AGAIN AWKWARD SILENCE!

After that, they both don't know what should they talk about?

So, They both want to get rid of that situation.

And After this, They both will avoid this awkward situation in the future and won't meet each other.

To Avoid this, ''Never give one-line replies''.

To use this you need to have kind of information about your Job, Business & Area where you stay and know things that can help you to continue the conversation.

Parroting

While talking to someone, you don't know what you should say next and you want your conversation should be continued.

So you can use this technique which is called ''Parroting''

Parroting is repeating the last few words of the person who is talking with you.

Ex. A-I'm just coming from a show.

B- Show?

A- Yup! Had fun! many great singers performed.

B- Great singers?

A- Yes! Shaan, Rahat & many.

B- Shaan?

A- Yup! What a singer!

Like this technique, we can make your conversation big with people by just repeating the last words.